Wednesday, July 13, 2011
Some thing that all girls must know
It was raining lightly and we were three together, the sister I am talking about, her husband and myself. I was just walking wired abreast them with my umbrella listening to some gospel songs from my cellphone and both of them were busy in their talks as they walked under a the same umbrella as Darjeeling monsoon patted on their flowered umbrella.
When we reached above the "Metro" one of the well known stationary in Darjeeling my brother left both of us to share the umbrella I was under to do some work he had in the shop near by.
There under my umbrella my sister started to share about her love relation with her husband. She talked to me about their quarrellsome and untolerable relation.....they had as a boyfriend and girlfriend. They were in relation as boyfriend and girlfriend for very long time, even as a college students and even before. In the initial years of their happy relation things went pretty well but as she completed her graduation from Loreto College she left for Delhi to continue her further studies, and her boyfriend was left back in Darjeeling where he continued his studies in Siliguri NBU.
On the contrary to "Distance makes Love go fonder", their relation started to get little messy, their long sweet chats now started ending with fights and bantering of harsh words. Her boyfriend use to always get too possessive, inquiring about her where abouts almost all the time, its seemed like he no more trusted her, he use to call her friends, room mates and cross check about her coming and going. He did not allow her to be around with her guy friends, her life had almost become a hell. Evey time she had to explain him about everything he doubted. Timing for getting in and out of house was as strict as in military camps. She was even embarrassed among her friends as it seemed she really was not worth trusting due to all her boyfriend did to her.
Their long relation, whom even their families knew was getting worst. She even thought that he was not the right guy for her and may be it was a mistake to be with him. She said, " if the guy is this possessive and irritating and un-understanding before marriage, then for sure my life would turn to be worst after marriage". She said to herself that she cannot spend her life with such a person, in fact she could not imagine rest of her life with such a person. So she gave a break and tried to end her relation with him, but the guy didn't agree with that, he was after her.....she even tried to be in relation with some other guy so that she can get rid of him, she had even planned to get married with one of the guy she met there in Delhi because all seemed perfect with him and he liked her too.
The matter became a big issue because her boyfriend loved her true and she loved him too but it seemed things were not working out between them anymore. So she thought it was best to end up..........
But as she finished with her studies and when she came back to Darjeeling.........with time.......she understood what I think every girls should know.....
She came to know how much he loved her, what he can do for him and without her he cannot do life....She came to know that no one can ever love her the way he did. She knew love is not just expressed and proved when relation functions smooth, when the two trusts each other. Love is no just defined when a yes is agreed with a yes, when calls end with smiles only. She knew she was a world to someone though she was just a smile me. The best thing she knew was to be with the person she loved and the person who loved her more than she may have ever done. Later they got married and it has almost been three years of their very happy and successful married life.
Every boy is possessive, arrogant, unfair when it comes to their girl whom they love. They are wild and insecure and jealous about their love no matter how ugly she may be, they are irrating and untorable most of the time especially when distance is the factor between them. They are ruthless and very ununderstanding............but that is how boys show their when their love is matured and when they are far away from their girl.
She said all the above lies to me....and she said that her husband is not like that anymore the way he was when they were not married. After marriage all guys change a lot, the change which every girl wants in their boyfriend is ironically found when he becomes her husband. Now he is very caring and trusts her more then anyone. He no more counter checks about her where abouts, never questions or doubts her words. He is very supportive and above all he loves her more then anything thing else. She believes she has world's best husband and imagines what if she had not given their relation a chance when it was at the worst........she shudders and says that she would have missed the worlds best person from her life and along with the best moments of her life.
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Thursday, June 16, 2011
Freak at the peak
One of my friend was on his was home from a hospital in Siliguri (regular checkups) and on the way he stops this auto which was almost half empty.....the auto driver sees him wave the hand and he pulls over, my friend gets in the cab which was not yet come to a halt, the auto moves over and he falls off the cab with his heavy bad. When he is till disbalanced the cab runs over his right leg with the rear wheel leaving him paranoid with pain on the busy highway.
Many people comes to see my friend lying on the road groaning with pain but nobody dare touch him or help him....."its a police case", "call police"......etc are all the people around him murmured. He waits there as he calls his friend in the near by place to take him to the hospital....he shared this to me with lots of pain in his throat as he wished if it was in Darjeeling.....i would have someone pick me the very instant i was down....i wish people over there in Siliguri was like Nepali family.....
He got the number of the auto, catches the diver after about an hour with the help of his friends but as the driver comes to him with closed hands....he forgives him the very instant and leaves him without any charge.....
The worst part is that now has to go through a operation because the bones are fragmented and he will be bed ridden for about a month, and just that every day he had got his appointment letter for his job as a teacher in one of the school in Darjeeling. He had got through this interview after a very long struggle.....but it seems that he has to let the goal slip off his very hand......
You may wonder why i have written this true story.....???? but if you go in deep you'll get the kernel.
My heart beats with same resentment when i think of the times when i was also ran over by some feelings that left me flat on the ground, there was nobody to give me a hand.....I too lied down my mental bed ridden for months, years...... but alas all i learnt was to forgive and forget!!! that is the best way to start new journey....
does it still sounds crab to you all??? if it does then you are lucky because that means you are not ranover.
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Wednesday, June 15, 2011
Apologies
Well this is not a business as for me its just being payed for your work. So right now i have another blog which needs more of my attention and i believe you would do the same if you were in my position. Not only that i have a site to be taken care of too, I mean I am doing the content writing and maintaining another professional site too. SO you see first of all I have my job and then I have three more sites to be looked after including this one. So it is quite a load for me to be blogging frequently.
This doesn't mean that i am hungry for bugs or i am lame, but i just thought that if i am giving in some precious time of mine in something then what harm is there if i just get paid for that. I believe in enjoying the cash you get for your work, i am strictly against black or easy money and that is the very reason i have not joined so called may business schemes that the world is after.
So i will not very well be blogging here anymore but again that doesn't mean that i will be closing this site, no i won't. I will be posting some freaking lines and attitudes once in a while, if you are lucky enough you may get to read it else you will miss the fun.
So i am very sorry if in anyways i am disappointing you, but i believe that you understand that maintaining a professional blog needs lots of your attention and time. Hope you all will excuse me.
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Monday, April 18, 2011
Saving Kingdom
All these snaps are the glimpses of the fun we had in Saving Kingdom after Torrent 2011 at siliguri. With my students and other staffs of IT and Management College, Ghoom Jorbunglow.
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Wednesday, April 6, 2011
The Limit to my Fantasy unknown...
I was on my way to college for the classes, since one of my college sir was absent on that i was all alone for the journey. I was well dressed and was ready waiting for the cab. After waiting for 5-6 minutes it seemed like i was getting late for the class so i got into one of the bus which was just passing by.
I caught a seat to the second back seat because usually the bus for early mornings are always booked by daily commuters except the last seats. The bus pulled off and after few minutes the bus stopped for a pick up and a young girl of about my age got in and searching for the seat she came and sat beside me. I had not seen her before she was a complete stranger to me. And i don't know for no reason for the first time i felt akward being seated near a girl. Well the bus pulled over and now i had a problem that i was carrying with me from the time i moved from my house on that day. The problem was very simple yet very serious too. I was as usual in formals but on that day i had not worn my tie because i have no idea about how to make the knot of the tie. On the way to the market for the cab i asked few school boys to help me with it but they were unable to help me. So i had to carry the tie without the knot in my bag hoping someone would help me..... so now suddenly remembred this need of mine and i thought that it was the time i got to ask my fellow seat mate in the bus.
With all the courage I asked her politey if she knew how to make a tie knot and she answered that can can and asked why was i asking to her? So in reply to her i just took out the red tie with small checked lines from my bag and gave it to her. She smiled and said, "you want me to make a knot?", I smiled and nodded to her. She almost half blused and said, "you don't know how to make it?", i again nodded to her.
She took the tie from me and quickly with few number of turns and pulls she made a beautiful knot and gave it to me. I thanked her and was so realifed to have it done for the rest of the days ahead.
Well it seems like life is full of unanswerable questions....i never knew that girl nor do i have the assurance of ever meeting her again but the fact that the knot she has made with my tie still hangs by my shirt even at this hour.
Now dear readers this can either be a fiction or a fact but i just wanted to bring in you to the realiazation that life is a lot beautiful if we learn to love each day we are given and even sttangers can leave beautiful memories in you if you have the heart for them.
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Tuesday, February 8, 2011
My love for you
And it’s only for you
My love for you is evergreen,
And it can always be seen.
My love for you is doubtless,
And it isn’t hopeless.
My love for you is immortal,
And it is perfect in total.
My love for you is victory,
And it isn’t trickery.
My love for you is healthy,
And it is very wealthy.
My love for you is me,
And its worthy, you just taste and see.
-shyrush
I want to tell you something as you go through the above lines that this poem was written during the most beautiful days of my life. It was written for the one and only special person of my life.....the depths i have put in it can not be measured and the words itself cannot contain the emotions i have soaked in it. I was in those time a poet......i mean i use to write for her.... well lately i have given up writing.......but i believe someday she will again inspire me to write!
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